Prayer is beautiful in the simplicity of its core meaning, especially as we try to share with kids what prayer is and how to pray. Prayer is also beautiful in its rich depth and complexity of variation. Really, we could spend hundreds or thousands of hours discussing, practicing, and learning about different ways of praying (i.e. communicating with God).
When it comes to leading prayer, you, your leaders, or your t[w]eens might feel uncomfortable, awkward, afraid, and/or like you’re “not good at it.” This is a simple way of explaining what it is to “lead prayer” that I found effective when I used it in a leadership training with middle schoolers:
Imagine you are with a group of friends and you have been talking about something (think about what you would typically talk about – school, movies, music, etc). Now, let’s say you have a friend that knows everything – they are basically kind of perfect. So you and your friends call up this expert friend and you explain what your group has been talking about and ask for some guidance or input on the subject.
That right there is basically leading prayer in a nutshell. You, the leader, are basically facilitating a conversation with God on behalf of the group. We communicate in this form pretty commonly. If you, your team, or your kids are still not feeling too sure about leading prayer, remember that it’s easier to talk to someone on behalf of a group when you’re already comfortable with the person you’re talking to. So I encourage you to spend more quality time with your “expert friend” 1-on-1 and watch your life and your ability to facilitate a group conversation with God blossom.